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Friday, 25 April 2014

A TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER ON HIS 88TH BIRTH ANNIVERSARY

Mr RC Sharma (1926-'97)
The year was 1954 and the place Ballia in Uttar Pradesh. The fury of nature was showing its worst facet. It had been raining incessantly for a week. The innumerable tributaries of Ganga were swollen beyond imagination, contributing relentlessly to the holy river that was in full spate widening its span dangerously by the minute. Its swirling waters were furiously taking away with it everything that came its way, be it the huts, the cattle or the human beings.

The rescue operations were in full swing. The local administration under his command was trying to get the villages evacuated, but the villagers were resisting it. They preferred to be flown away in the holy stream than to leave their ancestral place. They were willing to be guzzled by Ganga Maiyya if it was their destiny. He had pressed boats and steamers into action saving lives from drowning. Ace swimmers deployed on the boats were pulling the people out from the clutches of imminent death in a watery grave that awaited them in the sacred river. And he had to monitor them on all fronts.

He had left home the previous morning, supervising personally the activities of the rescue teams, and ensuring the safety and security of the affected people in his area. He was always there to lead from the front. There was no news of him and his young wife was worried no end but forced to manage a cool façade. She surely was not expected to panic.

It was 3 o'clock in the evening when his official Jeep screeched unannounced in the portico and he hopped out. Moving with the speed of lightning, he announced, “I am going for my bath. Give me the lunch in five minutes. I am leaving again after that.” He was so engrossed in his duty that he had not eaten anything in the last twenty-four hours.

His wife knew that five minutes meant five minutes. There was no gas, no refrigerator, and no microwave oven those days. Actually, there was no electricity in Ballia then although it was district headquarters. Knowing the uncertainty of her husband’s movement, she kept boiled potatoes ready all the time. Pumping two kerosene pressure stoves simultaneously, she promptly dished out jeera aloo and parathas.

A boat in Ganga (A file photo)
Playing dangerously with his life, he was again ready to go on the steamer to motivate his people to rescue lives. As he was leaving, his wife whispered to their daughter who was romping around barefoot, “You want to see the flooded Ganga?” The five-year-old was more than willing and nodded happily. She picked her up and quietly pushed her into the moving Willy’s Jeep from the open backside without his knowledge.

A few miles away when he turned around, he was surprised to find his little daughter sitting there much to his surprise. “What are you doing here?” he asked her.
“I also want to see the floods in Ganga. I will go with you in the boat,” she replied excitedly.
It was getting late and he had no time to return and drop her back. Thus, she accompanied him on the small unsteady steamer, rocking dangerously in the furious waters of the raging river. Scared on seeing a family drifting away atop a hut in the river, she clung to his legs only to be picked up by him reassuringly. The presence of his child did not deter him from performing his role until late at night when darkness set in.

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He was my father who had always put public interest above everything else and whose sense of duty was much above the welfare of self or family. He was ready to plunge into the riskiest of situations without worrying about his life. But my mother was always there to watch the entire family's interests without being obtrusive. Perhaps that is why she had pushed me into his Jeep to apply brakes on his risk-taking appetite that evening. But would he dither?

On your 88th birth anniversary, today, I salute you dear father for your amazing sense of duty! 


River Ganga in spate
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23 comments:

Varsha Uke Nagpal said...

It must have been an experience that you are never going to forget. I also saw flood ravaged Mahanadi in Hirakud when I was around the same age, and remember the scene quite vividly.
Your dad was a committed Officer who thought about saving the lives of many. I can imagine the worry and anxiety of your mother. Her ingenuity in putting you in the Jeep, thinking that at least your presence would make your dad return home in time for your food and sleep, is commendable.
Childhood memories and the dedication of parents and their lives are what makes the character of their children. My tributes to your father a dedicated and honest Officer, and also to your mother the lady who allowed him to pursue his work, and was his pillar of strength.

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Vijay Gupta on FB said
Many happy and healthy returns of the day to your papa.God bless him and a wonderful daughter like yours.

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Vinay Kala on FB said
I was moved at the thought. your inner strength shows and your tribute is in your writing. you are a gifted writer- facet I did not know.

Anonymous said...

Umesh Sharma on FB said
I have read your earlier blogs and the one in which you had recounted an experience about encounter with Chambal Valley Decoits was still fresh and speaks volumes about your fathers courage.
I know importance of father for a daughter being father of 2 daughters. My tributes to Great Soul

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Abhijit Das said on FB
Thanks.. for sharing your memories. Parents teaching help us to move in the earth. Your writing is excellence, I can't express my feelings in such a way. My tributes to your father. I hope you will get his blessing always as usual.

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Anil Saxena said on FB

A great tribute you gave by narrating such committed moments of your father to his duty, surely it is proud to have such parents to emulate.

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SK Kapoor said on FB

My tribute to great man,now a days it is difficult to find person with such devotion.Great man.

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Gulshan Dhingra said on FB

My tribute to the spirit of great man.

Anonymous said...

Priyamvada Verma wrote on FB:
A very inspiring life indeed.

Anonymous said...

Dinesh Sood opined on FB:

A real, touching, befitting and memorable tribute by a great daughter to her great father!

Anonymous said...

Narender Gupta said on FB:
A perfect tribute to your loving father.

Anonymous said...

Rupa Devi Singh said on FB

Beautifully written Ranjana . Blessed indeed are daughters who are raised by strong, principled and fearless men.
I think this is a great way to remember your dad. Certainly something to take a cue from.

Amarjit said...

A beautiful piece of prose ....really !!!

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Mohana Moorthy said on FB:
Beautiful and touching! Great way to remember a Great Soul!

Anonymous said...

Karamjit Singh said on FB:
Short and crisp.. Well written

Anonymous said...

Deepak Chatterjee sad on FB:
Nice post.....+++

R C Khadanga said...

Makes very interesting reading. While I salute your father who was perhaps your role model always I see the pride in your persona for being his daughter. May all fathers have daughters like you. May your father live long and healthy. - R C Khadanga

R C Khadanga said...

Makes very interesting reading. While I salute your father who was perhaps your role model always I see the pride in your persona for being his daughter. May all fathers have daughters like you. May your father live long and healthy. - R C Khadanga

Anonymous said...

Vijay Kumar Malhotra on FB said:
REALLY A TRUE TRIBUTE A DAUGHTER COULD GIVE TO HER FATHER...

Sneh Dhingra said...

Ranjana.. A very heartfelt rendition of a memory that must be seared in your psyche from that tender age. As I had the privilege of knowing your parents at close quarters, having availed of their love and shelter, I can see in my mind's eye the whole scenario as you have described it. Uncle was a special man. They don't make many like him. My tributes to his memory today.

Also, as I look at the picture of you in his arms, I espy the special cut of lips and the firm chin that you have inherited from Uncle. Along with that, the attributes of astuteness and fearlessness have also come to you from Uncle. Of course, you have inherited diplomacy from Aunty as well.

My friend, you are blessed to be born of and brought up by two very superb humans.. I raise my eyes with you to thank Uncle and Aunty to have given me an opportunity to cross their path and for also giving me a fine friend in you.

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Mohini Saran said on Fb:
God bless his soul.

B.K. ARORA said...

A great write up for a great father by a great daughter.

Sushil Ojha DehraDun said...

On 88th birth anniversary in the month of April 2014, we salute such dear father for his amazing sense of duty! And the then his 5 years old dear daughter (now Smt Ranjana Bhareej) for reproducing the whole account for our learning