STRESS, SUCCESS AND EVERYTHING IN-BETWEEN
The Highs and Lows of A Woman’s Journey in the Corporate World
CARE: This is Chapter 38 of my book Stress, Success and Everything In-Between. These are individual anecdotes but to understand the professional journey in totality, I would recommend reading the book right from Chapter 01 onwards.
After I had spent about two years in the Head Office, they decided to transfer me as Branch Manager to a branch in a middle-class residential locality of South Delhi.
My name plate displayed my name as Ranjana Bharij, but would a
customer bother to read the name before entering the room?
On the first day, a customer walked into my cabin and asked me,
“Where is Branch Manager Saheb?”
I was the only person in the room and sat on the plush high-back
revolving executive chair. "Does he think I am the Assistant to the Branch
Manager?" I thought but replied politely, “Tell me what I may do for
you."
“I want to meet THE Branch Manager.” Why did he sound so
irritated, I wondered.
I was amused, “Tell me, please. I am the Branch Manager."
Shocked, he stared at me in disbelief for a few seconds and left
the room in a huff. He went out and requested the Accountant to do the favour
to him. As it was not within the financial powers of the Accountant, he had
asked him to see me. But the gentleman returned and told him that he would not
seek a favour from a woman. Finally, the officer came to me to plead his case.
The next day, I was in my
room and asked the messenger to file some confidential papers in my presence on
my table. As he did so, standing there in his navy-blue uniform, a customer
walked in, looked at the messenger, doubled up with humility, folded his hands
and requested very humbly, “Sir, I have a request. Could you please permit me a
temporary overdraft of ….”
The messenger pointed
towards me and said, “Please speak to Madam.”
The customer repeated, “No
Sir. I am requesting you. Accountant Saheb says only Branch Manager Saheb can allow this.
Sir, please….” Embarrassed, the messenger repeated, “Arre Bhai Saheb,
Madam is the Branch Manager, not me.”
“Ohhh!” The customer looked at me and realised that I, the
Branch Manager, was a woman. His humble and polite demeanour vanished, and he turned
into an arrogant demanding customer. “Hey, listen! Allow this overdraft! My
cheque is in the clearing. There will be sufficient funds in the account
tomorrow.” His humble request had suddenly turned into a command. He decided he
could order me, as I was a woman and, therefore, an inferior species.
The next one takes the
cake. I was required to inspect a Lock & Key godown, which stored a few
hundred helmets seized from a defaulter borrower.
The godown was a room
hired in an old house in a nearby urban village. I, along with an officer, went
there. Driving the car in the narrow lanes of the village, trying to save
rickshaws and hand-carts parked haphazardly on both sides of the road, and
pedestrians walking in the middle of the road was a big challenge.
The village urchins found
it strange that a woman was driving the car and a man was sitting in the
passenger seat. They started running after the car, shouting on top of their
voices, "Dekho re dekho. Janani motor chala rahi
hai. Bhai baitha hai." (See
guys, see! A woman is driving the car, and a man is sitting.)
When we finally reached
the destination and stepped out of the car, the children surrounded me, staring
at me as if I were an alien.
The godown was a room in
an old haveli-type house,
access to which was through the courtyard. The officer knocked at the door,
which was already open and stepped into the courtyard where an old lady was
seated on a cot, enjoying the winter sun and shelling peas. She was the mother
of the landlord and was hard of hearing. The Head Cashier accosted her loudly, "Ram
Ram, Amma!"
She had seen him
earlier, but I was a new face. She was amused seeing me and asked loudly, "Kya re?
Aaj apni janani ko bhee sath laya sai?" (What! Today you have brought your wife also
along.)
The Head Cashier was
embarrassed and replied, "Nahin nahin, Amma. Ye to hamari Madam
hain. (No, no. Amma!
She is our Madam."
"Haan,
haan, wahee to kahein hain janani ko, angreji mein. main kya janoon na? (Yes, yes. That is what one calls the wife in
English. Don't I know?)"
He tried explaining again,
much to his and my discomfort. But I told him to ignore the woman and proceed
with the task.
We went inside and started
counting the boxes. Bang! A sudden gush of wind forced the door and window to
close. The room became pitch dark. I stopped counting and promptly came out.
Standing in the doorway, I asked him to continue counting the boxes and
checking their contents. Needless to add, I never went to that godown again.
Accepting a woman in a
position of authority was not the problem of only the sub-ordinate staff: the
customers of the Bank, that too in South Delhi, were no better. Everybody
seemed to be saying, "A woman as a Branch Manager? Howzzat?"
(To be continued....)
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5 comments:
So many memories come flooding in. Men - peer level, subordinate, customers, always were hassled to see a lady BM.
When I was posted at Jangpura Branch as Branch Manager, the customers were rather worried. The place right in the middle of New Delhi has a rather traditional kind of background. It was totally male oriented. Talking business, inspection with shop keepers was tough. There were many exporters too who banked with that branch- they were more amiable but thought finance/ banking was surely not my cup of tea. They preferred talking with my Field Officers.
Thankfully a lot had changed by the time we joined ( '84) but there were still those who had problems taking orders from a woman.-- Lakshmy Iyer
It is because parda system was followed in the North but in south it was not bad may be due to English education and influence. --Indira Narasimhan
Very interesting, Ranjana ji. Old memories revived. Yes, those were the days when it was not easy to break a male bastion. That you did with an aplomb is praiseworthy.
Narration, as usual, is so racy and lovely that one is simply spell bound. My salutations, as usual! -- Vijay Gupta
An interesting narration. The lady Officer are in high positions for quite sometime now
and we had a lady Chairman in the near past. I am reminded of my
experience. In 1976, I was posted at a Branch in New Delhi on my
first branch training as a T.O. The accountant at the branch was a
lady officer. It was one of the notorious branches and
the award staff at the counter would use vulgar language while talking to each other
I felt it quite embarrassing and one day while sitting in front of the accountant,
I asked her how do these dare use such filthy language. She said, one has to digest
all this to avoid any argument with those silly guys.
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